Saturday, January 12, 2013



Anyone with kids knows how awesome the TV can be, especially when it comes time to make dinner or take an important phone call. Often, those precious minutes tick by way too fast, which can lead to an unknown amount of TV being watched. As a parent we often ask, how much is too much?
According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, parents should follow these guidelines:
1. Limit children’s total media time (with entertainment media) to no more than 1 to 2 hours of quality programming per day.
2. Remove television sets from children’s bedrooms.
3. Discourage television viewing for children younger than 2 years, and encourage more interactive activities that will promote proper brain development, such as talking, playing, singing, and reading together.
4. Monitor the shows children and adolescents are viewing. Most programs should be informational, educational, and nonviolent.
5. View television programs along with children, and discuss the content.
6. Use controversial programming as a stepping-off point to initiate discussions about family values, violence, sex and sexuality, and drugs.
7. Use the DVR wisely to show or record high-quality, educational programming for children.
8. Support efforts to establish comprehensive media-education programs in schools.
9. Encourage alternative entertainment for children, including reading, athletics, hobbies, and creative play
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As the parent of a two-year-old, I can tell you that some of these guidelines are hard to follow. I find #3 to be pretty much impossible in my house. My little girl LOVES LOVES LOVES Mickey Mouse Clubhouse, which she started watching around 15 months of age and I can’t imagine a day without doing the hot dog dance! On weekend mornings my husband loves to snuggle up with her and watch Curious George…a tradition that has been occurring long before she turned two. How can that be so bad?

I do try to limit her media time to 2 hours, however, as a working-stay-at-home mom, sometimes I have to bend the rules with the iPad a little bit. She has a lot of puzzles and age appropriate games on the iPad that keep her busy when I have a meeting or I need to get some work done outside of her nap time. She also has apps where she can watch her favorite shows. Oftentimes she will put on a show, watch a few minutes and then run off and play, then she will come back and watch a few more minutes and then off she goes again.
I think the most important thing is to have a good balance. I know my daughter is watching safe, educational television, but she’s also getting plenty of time outdoors and time with me that does not involve any kind of media, such as arts and crafts. So while some days she watches more TV than others, I try not to beat myself up about it and strive for less screen time the next day.

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How much TV is too much for kids?

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Wednesday, January 9, 2013



A BOY keeps a password on his cellphone. While a MAN is confident enough to say"Baby can you answer that for me"???

A BOY runs the streets & chill with his friends. While a MAN is enjoying time with his woman planning ahead for their future

A BOY complains about spending too much time with his woman. While A MAN plans vacations & getaways because he is wise enough to notice tomorrow isn't promised

A BOY has pride after arguments. While A MAN has heart & emotions

A BOY beats on his woman. While A MAN massages & caresses his woman.

A BOY will tell his friends n people he meets how BAD his Woman is. While A MAN will say nice things About his Woman cos he knows NOBODY is Perfect

A BOY tells his woman all the things she does wrong. While A MAN acknowledges his woman's hard work n over look her errors

A BOY tells his woman she is sexy. While A MAN tells his woman she is beautiful

A BOY thinks all domestic jobs are for women. While A MAN helps his Woman both @ home n outside

A BOY thinks all the MEN who comment on a girl's PIX\write up is her BOYFriend. While A MAN knows that a beautiful lady must have admirers but she can't date all

A BOY loves ABORTION. While A MAN loves CHILDREN

A BOY envy his Woman. While A MAN support his woman

A BOY don't take care of his Woman but still want her to look GOOD. While A MAN takes care of his Woman cos he knows if he doesn't another MAN will do it

A BOY lie @ all times. While A MAN tells the TRUTH n Beg for forgiveness if Need be

A BOY is always fighting. While A MAN makes PEACE

A BOY will read this & think this is about him. While A MAN will read this & thoroughly acknowledge what he needs to fix in his relationship.

Note:- not only a marriage one is A MAN.

Guys, where do u belong???
Ladies, where your guy belong???

LET'S DIFFER MEN FROM BOYS

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1. No Breakfast
People who do not take breakfast are going to have a lower blood sugar level.
This leads to an insufficient supply of nutrients to the brain causing brain degeneration.

2. Overeating
It causes hardening of the brain arteries, leading to a decrease in mental power.

3. Smoking
It causes multiple brain shrinkage and may lead to Alzheimer disease.

4. High Sugar consumption
Too much sugar will interrupt the absorption of proteins and nutrients causing malnutrition and may interfere with brain development.

5. Air Pollution
The brain is the largest oxygen consumer in our body. Inhaling polluted air decreases the supply of oxygen to the brain, bringing about a decrease in brain efficiency.

6. Sleep Deprivation
Sleep allows our brain to rest. Long term deprivation from sleep will accelerate the death of brain cells.

7. Head covered while sleeping
Sleeping with the head covered increases the concentration of carbon dioxide and decrease concentration of oxygen that may lead to brain damaging effects.

8. Working your brain during illness
Working hard or studying with sickness may lead to a decrease in effectiveness of the brain as well as damage the brain.

9. Lacking in stimulating thoughts
Thinking is the best way to train our brain, lacking in brain stimulation thoughts may cause brain shrinkage.

10. Talking Rarely
Intellectual conversations will promote the efficiency of the brain.

culled from

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