Friday, December 28, 2012





I went to a party Mom,
I remembered what you said.
You told me not to drink, Mom,
So I drank soda instead.


I really felt proud inside, Mom,
The way you said I would.
I didn't drink and drive, Mom,
Even though the others said I should.

I know I did the right thing, Mom,
I know you are always right.
Now the party is finally ending, Mom,
As everyone is driving out of sight.

As I got into my car, Mom,
I knew I'd get home in one piece.
Because of the way you raised me,
So responsible and sweet..

I started to drive away, Mom,
But as I pulled out into the road,
The other car didn't see me, Mom,
And hit me like a load.

As I lay there on the pavement, Mom,
I hear the policeman say,
"The other guy is drunk," Mom,
And now I'm the one who will pay.

I'm lying here dying, Mom....
I wish you'd get here soon.
How could this happen to me, Mom?
My life just burst like a balloon..

There is blood all around me, Mom,
And most of it is mine.
I hear the medic say, Mom,
I'll die in a short time.

I just wanted to tell you, Mom,
I swear I didn't drink.
It was the others, Mom.
The others didn't think.

He was probably at the same party as I.
The only difference is, he drank
And I will die.

Why do people drink, Mom?
It can ruin your whole life.
I'm feeling sharp pains now.
Pains just like a knife.

The guy who hit me is walking, Mom,
And I don't think it's fair.
I'm lying here dying
And all he can do is stare.

Tell my brother not to cry, Mom.
Tell Daddy to be brave.
And when I go to heaven, Mom,
Put "GOOD BOY " on my grave.

Someone should have told him, Mom,
Not to drink and drive.
If only they had told him, Mom,
I would still be alive.

My breath is getting shorter, Mom.
I'm becoming very scared.
Please don't cry for me, Mom.
When I needed you, you were always there.

I have one last question, Mom.
Before I say good bye.
I didn't drink and drive,
So why am I the one to die?

Someone took the effort to write this poem. So please, Share with your friends

A Touching Poem......Don't Drink and Drive

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Sunday, December 23, 2012





A little boy came up to his mother in the kitchen one evening while she was fixing supper, and handed her a piece of paper that he had been writing on.
After his Mom dried her hands on an apron, she read it, and this is what it said:
For cutting the grass: $5.00
   For cleaning up my room this week: $1.00
    For going to the store for you: $.50
    Baby-sitting my kid brother while you went shopping: $.25
    Taking out the garbage: $1.00
    For getting a good report card: $5.00
    For cleaning up and raking the yard: $2.00
    Total owed: $14.75
Well, his mother looked at him standing there,and  the boy could see the memories flashing through her mind. She picked up the pen, turned over the paper he'd written on, and this is what she wrote:
For the nine months I carried you  while you were growing inside me:
No Charge
For all the nights that I've sat up with you  doctored and prayed for you:
No Charge
For all the trying times, and all the tears that   you've caused through the years:
No Charge
For all the nights that were filled with dread,  and for the worries I knew were ahead:
No Charge
For the toys, food, clothes, and even wiping your nose:
No Charge
Son, when you add it up,  the cost of my love is:
No Charge.
When the boy finished reading what his mother had written, there were big tears in his eyes, and he looked  straight at his mother and said, Mom, I sure do love you.
And then he took the pen and in great big letters he wrote: PAID IN FULL.
Lesson from the Above Inspiring Story:
1) You will never know how much your parents  worth till you become a Parent
2) Be a giver not an asker, especially with your parents. There is a lot to give, besides money.
Advice: IF your mom is alive and close  to you, give her  a big kiss and ask her for forgiveness. If she is far away call her. if she passed away, pray for her


No Charge

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Saturday, December 22, 2012




A store that sells new husbands has opened in Manchester , just off Deansgate where a woman may go to choose a husband. Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store operates:

You may visit this store ONLY ONCE! There are six floors and the value of the products increase as the shopper ascends the flights. The shopper may choose any item from a particular floor, or may choose to go up to the next floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit the building!

So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband. On the first floor the sign on the door reads:

Floor 1 - These men Have Jobs

She is intrigued, but continues to the second floor, where the sign reads:

Floor 2 - These men Have Jobs and Love Kids.
'That's nice,' she thinks, 'but I want more.'

So she continues upward. The third floor sign reads:
Floor 3 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, and are Extremely Good Looking.

'Wow,' she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going.

She goes to the fourth floor and the sign reads:
Floor 4 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Good Looking and Help With Housework...

'Oh, mercy me!' she exclaims, 'I can hardly stand it!'
Still, she goes to the fifth floor and the sign reads:

Floor 5 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Gorgeous, Help with Housework, and Have a Strong Romantic Streak.

She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the sixth floor, where the sign reads:

Floor 6 - You are visitor 31,456,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor.. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please. Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store.
PLEASE NOTE:

To avoid gender bias charges, the store's owner opened a New Wives store just across the street with the same rules.
The first floor has wives that love sex.

The second floor has wives that love sex and have money and like beer

The third, fourth, fifth and sixth floors have never been visited.

The Husband Store

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Friday, December 21, 2012




Does your name begin with: A
U are not particularly romantic, but you are interested in action.You mean business. With you, what you see is what 
you get.You have no patience for flirting and can't be 
bothered with someone who is trying to be coy, cute, 
demure, and subtly enticing. You are an up-front person. 
You often don't get hints & you ever pass any. Brains turn 
you on. You must feel that your partner is! intellectually stimulating, otherwise you will find it difficult to sustain 
the relationship. You require loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know that you're being appreciated. Your mate's physical attractiveness is important for you. You tend to be very Practical, & not very emotional Your choices are very good & can only lead to trouble. 
You are very self satisfied & egoistic.
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Does your name begin with: B
You give off vibes of lazy sensuality. You enjoy being romanced, wined, and dined. You are very happy to receive gifts as an expression of the affection of your lover. You want to be pampered and know how to pamper your mate. You are private in your expression of endearments, and particular when it comes to love. You will hold off until everything 
meets with your approval. You can control your appetite & feelings. You require new sensations and experiences. 
You are willing to experiment.
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Does your name begin with: C
You are a very social individual, and it is important to you to have a relationship. You require closeness and togetherness. You want the object of your affection to be socially acceptable and good-looking. You see your lover as a friend and companion. You are very sensual, Needing someone to appreciate and almost worship you. When this cannot be achieved, you have the ability to hold out on affection until you receive this.. You are an expert at controlling your desires and doing without.
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Does your name begin with: D
Once you get it into your head that you want someone, you move full Steam ahead in your suit. You do not give up your quest easily. You are nurturing and caring. If someone has a problem, this turns you on. You are highly passionate, loyal, and intense in your involvement's, sometimes possessive and jealous. You are very sharp & talented often with sense of humor. When people bother to look deep inside they cannot resist what they see. You are stimulated by the eccentric and unusual, having a free and open attitude. You get jealous of other people and lose your temper .
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Does your name begin with: E
Your greatest need is to talk. If your date is not a good listener, you have trouble relating. A person must be intellectually stimulating or you are not interested sexually. You need a friend for a lover and a companion You hate disharmony and disruption, but you do enjoy a good argument once in a 
while-it seems to stir things up. You flirt a lot, for the challenge is more important. But once you give your heart away, you are uncompromisingly loyal. You will fall asleep with a good book. 
sometimes, in fact, you prefer a good book to a lover)
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Does your name begin with: F
You are idealistic and romantic, putting your lover on a pedestal. You look for the very best mate you can find. 
You are a flirt, yet once committed, you are very loyal. 
You are sensuous and privately passionate. Publicly, you 
can be showy, extravagant, and gallant. You are a born romantic. Dramatic love scenes are a favorite fantasy 
past time. You can be a very generous lover.
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Does your name begin with: G
You are fastidious, seeking perfection within yourself and 
your lover. You respond to a lover who is your intellectual equal or superior, and one who can enhance your status. You are sensuous and know how to reach the peak of stimulation, because you work at it meticulously. You can be extremely active-never tiring out. Your duties and responsibilities take precedence over everything else. You may have difficulty getting emotionally close to people.
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Does your name begin with: H
You seek a mate who can enhance your zest for life ,fun & everything You seek for. You will be very generous to your lover once you have Attained a commitment. You are very affectionate & very strong. Your gifts are actually an investment in your partner. Before the commitment, though, you tend to be very careful with your every move and equally cautious in your involvement's often as you believe that you have to look out for yourself. You are a sensual and patient lover. You will hold off till everything meets your full approval. You are a perfectionist, hard to satisfy and strong in your beliefs. Not influential, you always stand your ground. People can always count on you to stand by them in a crisis. You are a dreamer with/ a passion for life.
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Does your name begin with: I
You have a great need to be loved, appreciated... even worshiped. You enjoy luxury, sensuality, and pleasures of 
the flesh. You like necking spend hours just touching 
feeling & exploring. You look for lovers who know what 
they are doing. You are not interested in an amateur, unless that amateur wants a tutor. You are fussy and exacting about having your desires satisfied. You are willing to experiment and try new modes of expression. You bore easily and thus require adventure and change. Your commitments don't last very long & you often tend to stray. Loyalty is not one of 
your strong points. You are more sensual than sexual, but 
you are sometimes downright lustful.
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Does your name begin with: J
You are blessed with a great deal of physical energy. When used for a good cause there is nothing to stop you, except maybe that they aren't always used for the good. (you could dance all night.) You respond to the thrill of the chase and 
the challenge of the mating game.You can carry on great romances in your head. At heart you are a roamer and need 
to set out on your own every so often. You will carry on 
long- distance relationships with ease. You are idealistic and need to believe in love. You have a need to be nurtured deep within.
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Does your name begin with: K
You are secretive, self-contained, and shy. You are very 
sexy, sensual, and passionate, but you do not let on to this. Only in intimate privacy will this part of your nature reveal itself. When it gets down to the natty-gritty, you are an 
expert. You know all the little tricks of the trade, can play 
any role or any game, and take your love life very seriously. You don't fool around. You have the patience to wait for the right person to come along. You are very generous & giving, often selfless. You are kind-nature d & sweet, which is found to be attractive by many. You are a good friend.
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Does your name begin with: L
You can be very romantic, attached to the glamour of love. Having a partner is of paramount importance to you. You 
are free in your expression of love and are willing to take chances, try new sexual experiences and partners, provided 
it's all in good taste. Brains turn you on. You must feel that your partner is intellectually stimulating, otherwise you will find it difficult to sustain the relationship. You require loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know that you're being appreciated. "You require loving, cuddling, wining, and 
dining to know that you're being appreciated ".
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Does your name begin with: M
You may appear innocent, unassuming and shy; but we 
know that Appearances can lie. When it comes to sex, you 
are no novice but something of a skilled technician. You can easily go to extremes, though, running the gamut from insatiability to boredom with the whole idea of love. You 
can be highly critical of you mate, seeking perfection in 
both of you. It is not easy to find someone who can meet 
your standards. You have difficulty expressing emotions 
and drawing close to lovers. You are often selfish, thinking you are always right no matter what. You never give in. Winning is your prime desire- at any cost. You often forget friends and family and you live for the moment.
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Does your name begin with: N
You are emotional and intense. When involved in a relationship, you Throw your entire being into it. Nothing stops you; there are no holds barred. You are all-consuming and crave someone who is equally passionate and intense.
You believe in total freedom. You are willing to try anything and everything. Your supply of energy is inexhaustible. You want to be pampered and know how to pamper your mate. You also enjoy mothering your mate. You often have the greatest love affairs all by yourself, in your head. You are 
very imaginative.
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Does your name begin with: O
You are very interested in fun activities yet secretive and 
shy about your desires. You can re-channel much of your energy into making money and/or seeking we. You can 
easily have extended periods of celibacy. You are a passionate, compassionate lover, requiring the same qualities From your mate. Love is serious business; thus you demand intensity, diversity and is willing to try anything or anyone. Sometimes your passions turn to possessiveness, which must be kept in check.
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Does your name begin with: P
You are very conscious of social proprieties. You wouldn't think of Doing anything that might harm your image or Reputation. Appearances count. Therefore, you require a 
good-looking partner. You also require an intelligent partner. Oddly enough, you may view your partner as your enemy...
a good fight stimulates those vibes. You are relatively free of hang- ups.You are willing to experiment and try new ways of doing things.You are very social and sensual; you enjoy flirting and need a good deal of physical gratification.
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Does your name begin with: Q
You require constant activity and stimulation. You have tremendous physical energy. It is not easy for a partner to 
keep up with you. You are an enthusiastic lover and tend 
to be attracted to people because of their ethnic groups. You need romance, hearts and flowers, and conversation to turn you on and keep you going.
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Does your name begin with: R
You are a no-nonsense, action-oriented individual. You 
need someone who can keep pace with you and who is 
your intellectual equal-the smarter the better. You are 
turned on more quickly by a great mind than by a great 
body. However, physical attractiveness is not very important to you. You have to be proved to be worthy for a partner. 
You have a need to prove yourself the best. You want feedback on your performance. You are open, stimulating 
& romantic.
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Does your name begin with: S
For you, it is pleasure before business. You can be 
romantically idealistic to a fault and is capable of much sensuality. But you never loose control of your emotions. 
Once you make the commitment you stick like glue. You could get jealous and possessive. You tend to be very selfish often regarding yourself as the only human being on the planet.. You like being the center of attention. You are very caring sensitive, private & sometimes very passive. Turned 
on by soft lights, romantic thoughts. When it gets down to the natty-gritty, you are an expert. You know all the little tricks 
of the trade, can play any role, or any game, and take your 
love life very seriously. You don't fool around. You have the patience to wait for the right person to come along. You are very generous & giving, often selfless. You are kind nature 
& sweet which is found to be attractive by many. You are a good friend.
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Does your name begin with: T
You are very sensitive, private & sometimes very passive. 
You like someone who takes the lead. You get turned on 
by music, soft lights & romantic thoughts. You fantasize & tend to fall in & out of love soon. When in love you are romantic, idealistic, mushy & extremely. You enjoy having your senses & your feelings stimulated, titillated & teased. 
You are a great flirt. You can make your relationships fit 
your dreams, all in your own head. Once you put your 
mind to something you manage to stand by it and see your dreams through. You aren't very good at expressing your feelings. You like things your own way. You do not like change, you like to hold on to things. This may not always 
be good because if given an opportunity things may develop into great things. You work your way to the top. Attention must be given to what others say because even though you don't want to hear it their advice may turn out to save your life!
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Does your name begin with: U
You are enthusiastic & at your happiest when in love. 
When not in love you're in love with love and always 
looking for someone to adore. You see romance as challenge. You are a roamer & needs adventure, excitement freedom. 
You enjoy giving gifts & looking good. You are willing to 
put others feelings above yours.
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Does your name begin with: V
You are individualistic & you need freedom, space & excitement. You wait till you know someone well before committing yourself. Knowing someone means psyching her/him out. You feel a need to get into his/her head to 
see what makes him tick. You are attracted to eccentric 
types. You believe that age is no barrier. You are good at responding to danger, fear & suspense.
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Does your name begin with: W
You are very proud, determined & refuses to take no for 
an answer when it come to love. Your ego is at stake all 
the time. You are romantic, idealistic, often in love with 
love itself, not seeing your partner for who she or he r
really is. You feel deeply about love & tends to throw all 
of your self into a relationship. Nothing is too good for 
your lover. You like playing love games.
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Does your name begin with: X
You need constant stimulation because you get bored 
quickly. You can handle more than 1 relationship at a 
time with ease. You can't shut off your mind. You can 
do 2 things at once. You are very talented.
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Does your name begin with: Y
You are sensual & very independent. If you can't have it 
your way, you will forget the whole thing. You want to control your relationships which doesn't work out too 
well. You respond to physical stimulation. However if 
you can make money you will give up the pleasures of 
the flesh for the moment. You have a need to prove y
yourself the best. You want feedback on your performance. 
You are open, stimulating & romantic.
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Does your name begin with: Z
You are very romantic but some how feels that to love 
means to suffer. You wind up serving your mate & 
attracting people who have unusual trouble. You see

Your character from your name.

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Saturday, November 17, 2012


"A woman is like a tea bag; you never know how strong it is until it's in hot water." 

— Eleano Roosevelt 






Wives in 3 Generations

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Over the years, I have watched many people die silently over love that they have no control of. While some are dying silently looking for love. It seems to me that most people simply want to love. Yet the missing link is glaring for all to see. Many desire love but they have no idea how to love themselves.

This blog is a product of many proding by people who asked me to write about love. People I have advised, and who think I have something to say.

I am in no way a love expert but I do feel I can share a bit of what I know, hopefully, I will have enough people to guide me aright when I am off the mark. I will write every week.

All names and illustrations in this blog are fictitious and not affiliated to anyone.

Thank you.

I. N.

Love and live

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